I first met Dorian back in December of 2005, when I was working as the general manager of a gay cam site. I got an instant message on Yahoo(tm) from this cocky young man who wanted to be a Cam Boy. I can remember the conversation like it was yesterday. After he had kept on me for several days, he ended up at the Studio at Cam Boys xXx, with all of his possessions in his suitcase and was ready for work. He ended up being, much to my surprise, the #1 performer on the site.
This is a picture we took of him in his first promo shoot at the site. See how innocent he looks.
You can see the whole promo shoot by clicking here.
I ran into him again the other day online and he is looking to get back into the porn business. So I asked him if I could interview him for the blog and he agreed. Here is that interview:
Jake46a: The first thing I want to do is thank you for doing this interview. It was great of you to take some time out of your schedule. Let’s get some of the initial stuff out of the way first, so we can get onto the more in-depth stuff ... Age?
Dorian Grai:23
Jake46a: Orientation?
Dorian Grai: Tri-sexual or Try-sexual
Jake46a: Please explain what you mean?
Dorian Grai: I am a try sexual because i will try anything at least once :-)
Jake46a: OK like the door knob theory (inside joke: Door Knob = Everyone has had a turn)
Dorian Grai: I saw that coming
Jake46a: LOL, Hair color?
Dorian Grai: Light/sandy brown.
Jake46a: Eye color?
Dorian Grai: Blue or green. Change with mood and out fit.
Jake46a: Hmm...interesting. Height?
Dorian Grai: 5'9" ish
Jake46a: Weight?
Dorian Grai: 120lbs
Jake46a: Relationship status?
Dorian Grai: Single
Jake46a: Cock size?
Dorian Grai: 7.5-8" ish or big enough to choke a bear and make his eyes water haha!

Jake46a: LOL, Cut/uncut?
Dorian Grai: Cut
Jake46a: Top, Bottom, Versatile? I know the answer so don't lie!
Dorian Grai: Versatile?
Jake46a: LOL, Bottom in my book. I have seen the green "Big Boy" disappear. (See photo at the end of the interview)
Dorian Grai: Hush.
Jake46a: I have seen it disappear in more than just your ass!
Dorian Grai: Who else used it? Other than you LOL
Jake46a: Uhm...lets move on
Dorian Grai: No someone else used big boy? Thankfully I disinfected him on a regular LOL
Jake46a: No just you and myself during that two man show you talked me into
Dorian Grai: LOL I was about to say
Jake46a: Favorite food?
Dorian Grai: Anything that wont bite me first or bite me back
Jake46a: Favorite Movie?
Dorian Grai: What the hell kinda question is that for a guy who doesn't watch TV? LOL.
Dorian Grai: I like horror flicks..
Jake46a: Favorite Musician? (I hate to ask this one)
Dorian Grai: Madonna
Jake46a: Favorite porn movie?
Dorian Grai: I don't watch porn. I just do it. LOL
Jake46a: I know that is a lie but i will let it slide...Favorite porn star?
Dorian Grai: I don't have a favorite porn star.. and yes my favorite porn would be anything with military men or hot muscle boys
Jake46a: Occupation other than porn?
Dorian Grai: Hospitality
Jake46a: So are u a boxer or a tighty whitey kind of guy?
Dorian Grai: Depends on my mood
Jake46a: Explain
Dorian Grai: Well if I feel like hanging free I wear boxers.. if I feel like I need a little extra support I wear my tighty whities or tighty greenies or whatever color of the day would be :-)
Jake46a: OK now that the stats are out of the way. Let me ask you, how did you get into the porn industry?â€Â
Dorian Grai: Well.. the first time I was about 18 and got jipped by some fake homos and then after that I ended up working on a camsite called camboysxxx.com
Jake46a: Fake homos?
Dorian Grai: Yeah guys who ripped me off with my first porno .
Jake46a: Oh so you got swindled to make a porn without getting paid
Dorian Grai: Yep
Jake46a: Unfortunately that does happen more than it should in this industry; how can one protect themselves from that happening?
Dorian Grai: Just know that you can't trust anyone no matter what.. always ask questions, don't be afraid to ask questions no matter how stupid they may seem. and in some cases, it doesn't hurt to ask someone who is in the porn industry. Go to the porn site. Send an email and ask someone in the industry what they can find out.
Jake46a: What made you decide to continue to do porn? I mean after your first bad experience?
Dorian Grai: Life goes on.. can't let one bad experience ruin everything you wanna do. Its kinda like a boyfriend. All because it doesn't work out, doesn't mean life doesn't go on right?
Jake46a: True, good outlook. So other than the bad experience of getting ripped off doing your first porno, how was the first session? Were you nervous with people watching you?
Dorian Grai: I'm a natural.. so Ive been told. And no never nervous...LOL
Jake46a: So having people in the room did not distract you at all?
Dorian Grai: Well honestly.. the first actually porno i did (the one he got paid for). "Dorians big mistake" that only distraction was the queenie cute guy that I made the mistake of doing the porno with. Once you agree to do something you can't really back out and not do it.
Jake46a: OK, now everyone who is reading this will know for the intro that we have worked together, or should I say with each other. LOL. Do you remember how long it took?
Dorian Grai: Like 4 hours. And we got like almost no footage

(Now VIP members at CamBoysxXx can see this video it is in two parts. The sound was kept on so you can hear the problems that they were having.)
Jake46a: LOL, shhh the footage is available to be seen in the VIP section of camboysxxx.com
Dorian Grai: Because he would open his mouth and JR would go limp.. the sound of his voice was just WAY too much.
Jake46a: I know you tell him to shut up in the video
Dorian Grai: So the public and the fans know. When Xane opened his mouth my cock went limp. LOL
(Side note: NOT form the looks of this picture...LOL)

Jake46a: LOL, I knew you would mention his name.
Dorian Grai: Had to.
Jake46a: So then you enjoyed the cam work and the solos more than the two guy shows?
Dorian Grai: Not really, can't say that and be honest.
Jake46a: OK, so you enjoyed the group things more?
Dorian Grai: Cause a couple of the guys I worked with were good friends and I had fun with the shows.. but the guys have to be a little more butch. I cant deal with flamey queenie queers.
Jake46a: LOL
Dorian Grai: Just being frank blunt and honest. That's what its all about/p>
Jake46a: Hell Dorian I remember the 20 hour days, and the sleeping int he studios. One thing I will give you, you were an excellent manager of the other models,you knew how to keep them motivated when they started to get burned out
Dorian Grai: :-)
Jake46a: Well I now hear from you that you are looking for work back in the gay cam performances, true?
Dorian Grai: Yes. Have actually thought about possibly starting my own company and going from there. but not sure if I could do it.
Jake46a: What advice would you give to someone who wants to cam?
Dorian Grai: Time goes by so slowly for those who wait, and you have to be ready to jump. a good porn star can get hard on demand and cum on command. Have fun with it, be the star. Because the spot lite will fade once you start getting old.. :-) but even then, you will always be who you are
Jake46a: If you could pick anyone in the porn industry to do a 2 guy with who would it be and why?
Dorian Grai: I cant say that I could name anyone right off the top of my head... But he would have to be masculine, and muscular, and cute. :-) and would have to be willing to bottom for me.. :-) or slim and masculine would work too. LOL just not femme
Jake46a: So then you would not bottom for a real hot masculine hunk?
Dorian Grai: Did I say that?
Jake46a: Well you said willing to bottom for you
Dorian Grai: If they are hot enough they could probably just touch me and bang have what they want LOL
Jake46a: Any type of niche/kinky porn you would like to do?
Dorian Grai: I'm up for trying anything once or twice.. maybe more.. :-) any suggestions ?
Jake46a: Well I do remember some bondage photos?
Dorian Grai: Yep
Jake46a: Think I still have a couple on my old computer
Dorian Grai: LOL
Jake46a: So you like that sort of thing?
Dorian Grai: I like all sorts of things.. it just has to be with the right guy.. the guy has to know what hes doing if hes gonna get me into it
Jake46a: Easy/light/moderate or heavy domination?
Dorian Grai: I've done it all before
Jake46a: Is their any other type of modeling you would like to do?
Dorian Grai: Modeling? I can do anything I put my mind to. If someone contacted me to just do photos and the price was right, I would be there in a minute. I'm open to trying anything new in life. Life is too short to live by a set cycle of events set day to day.
Jake46a: I know everyone has different expectations of what the porn business is going to be like. What were your expectations and did it live up to it?
Dorian Grai: Kinda sorta. I did end up with a lot of what I wanted. and in the end was it worth it to see my name in lights and to hear people talking about me? It wasn't exactly what I expected but so is life. It's something that I have enjoyed doing and something I owuld enjoy doing again. People will love me for who I am, or hate me for what I'm not. But its their decision to either know me, or pretend to. People only talk shit about you, because they want to be just like you.
Jake46a: So when you are out and about, do you get recognized often? If so, how does that feel?
Dorian Grai: Yeah I do get recognized.. and It's OK. If the guy is hot I admit to who I am. If the guy isn't I usually just say "oh thats my brother"
Jake46a: LOL. So what is your ideal man, I mean for yourself, in a relationship? What are you looking for?
Dorian Grai: Well, actually. there is someone who has really caught my eye after being single for 5 years. Yes its been that long! He started out being totally NOT my type, and we all know that my type is masculine and muscular with a hot tight muscular ass, and smooth and nice abs. But this guy is totally not my type at all. You know I love my muscle men. Smooth, nice, cute, masculine, and adorable.
Jake46a: Don't we all? So what he is a 48 year old Bear? LMAO
Dorian Grai: LOL far from a bear. He is 30 years old and a student studying Law :-) He is truly everything that I could ask for in a guy, he has beautiful blue eyes, gorgeous body, and a smile that just makes your day worth while. I love cuddling with him, and having him in my arms, and love and cherish every moment that I spend with him. be it at the bar having a few beers, or just snuggling in his bed watching movies.
Jake46a: So then you are not really single then?
Dorian Grai: No. I am single
Jake46a:OK Dorian you have me confused, but that is nothing new.
Dorian Grai: The problem with gay men is that none of them want what I am looking for. Gay men don't want a relationship, or someone that will love, respect and support them in life's decisions. They all just want Sex.
Jake46a: What is your sexual fantasy?
Dorian Grai: I don't have a sexual fantasy
Jake46a: You don't?
Dorian Grai: I've already done them all. LOL
Jake46a: OK. Who do you admire the most?
Dorian Grai: There are 4 people that I admire the most in life. My mother Sonja, my sister Darrah. this wonderful guy named Phil and of course Madonna.
Jake46a: Yep, i know you would not let Madonna go unmentioned again. I remember the music blaring in the studio.
Dorian Grai: You miss it?
Jake46a: In a perverse way I do. But I love what I do now more that the cams.
Dorian Grai: Oh yeah. I admire you too. You and my friends Fred and Tom.. you guys helped me grow. a lot
Jake46a: Well thanks for that. Now lets let them in on the secret, what is the green monster? Are you going to tell them or am I; or was it called "Big Boy"
Dorian Grai: Big Boy
Jake46a: Explain what that was.
Dorian Grai: Oh lord.. I wish you could see the look I'm giving you right now.
Jake46a: I think I can, my screen just bit me.
Dorian Grai: LOL. Big Boy was my big 10.5 inch glow in the dark green dildo.
Jake46a: And did not that same dildo make you say on the Gay Radio Station that you were a bottom?
See the whole promo photo shoot of Dorian Grai and Big Boy click here
Dorian Grai: LOL. That was wfagradio, and yeah.. you can download it and hear my admition that I'm a bottom
Jake46a: I should do that.
Dorian Grai: Oh jesus! All you have to do is search for Dorian Grai that have traffic reports and everything. It's kinda like calling Madonna's confession hot line.
Jake46a: I know that if you want to contact Dorian you can do so through this site; please no stalkers. I know he had enough problems with one guy.
Dorian Grai: God knows I don't need another stalker
Jake46a: Let's leave the last name out of it, please.
Dorian Grai: Yeah a jerk named Jack who claims to work for another porn site.
Jake46a: Yeah I remember him and what he did to several young men. Well if anyone out there is legitimate and interested in giving Dorian Grai some work. Just contact him through this blog and we will forward it onto him
Jake46a: Thanks Dorian have a great one; and by the way you owe me drinks and a dinner next weekend
Dorian Grai: LOL. Are you coming to visit?